Tuesday, June 1, 2010

hates ignorant people!

So my parents know about IVF #1 and just yesterday she said she heard from her cousin that a couple they know went through IVF and after that had a child with disability and lost all their money and assets.  My parents are strict and old fashioned as well as her cousin. The cousin believes that you should not mess with mother nature and since the couple who did IVF did, that was the result. I told my parents, even people who get pregnant the normal way have children with disabilities. I was so pissed. I did not ask for the cousin's opinion or his views on IVF.  He has not been in our shoes so he doesn't know.  I explained to my parents there are tons of couples that have infertility issues and go through IVF and have success pregnancies. Ughhh so pissed!  IVF is not easy and it takes a toll on your emotionally and now I have to deal with this too.  Its so sad that I can't have my parents be supportive now that my cousin has poisoned their minds. I couldn't even tell them about IVF #2. 

At A's birthday party, there were babies everywhere. It made me extremely sad but I kept a happy face and stayed away from the mother's and their kids. Thanks goodness I do not know most of them so I did not have to talk to them. It never gets easy does it?

Today, we have our consult with Dr. Sher, still waiting for him to call. I hope he gives us some positive news, I really need something positive right now!! 

1 comment:

  1. How did your consult go??? I hope the call gave you some optimism!

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